Question

okay, so there’s this girl at my school that i used to be bestfriends with. we recently stopped being friends when the new year started. it was mainly my choice simply becuase i didnt like the type of person she was. she’s the drama type and she would always pick on others who wear rag clothes or who she thinks are ugly and call girls hoes ( when she had sex with her so called ‘brothers” or “bestfriend”) so i was tired of the negativity because im no where near something like that so thats why me and her arent friends.but see im different, once me and you arent cool anymore, i dont talk mess about you or spread rumors or try to minupulate you in any way. well shes been saying slick things around me, just the little stuff to get under my skin.i dont understand why she does that when she is never in my mouth or my mind. and im going to snap if she keeps pushing it. but i dont want to. i dont like fights or drama. but i have her in 5 of my classes and  we are friends with the same people, so whenever im with them she’s there to! so its kind of hard to avoid her. and plus at times i dont even think some of my friends are REALLY my friends. but please tell me what should i do about this situation! and sorry about the exxesive paragraphs i cant write as much as i want to on here.

Answer

It sounds like youve been being the bigger person and you should continue to be. The little petty things shes doing is just to get a reaction out of you but dont give it to her. She wants you to get mad, shes wants to pull you out of your character, and I know its hard to stay composed with someone picking at you every chance they get but its just best to give her a ‘girl, bye’ and keep on moving. Show her shes insignificant and walk the halls like youre Naomi Campbell!! Stay chic!!

-Tima

I think that you’re doing the right thing by separating yourself from negativity.  I would just try to talk to her & let her know why you’re not as close to her as you all used to be.  If she doesn’t change then stay away because you don’t need that in your life.

XOXOXO

-L. Danielle

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-Neil

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